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Eileen Rizo-Patron's avatar

I'm a little shy about sharing posts publicly, but I have to write to you about the reflections you shared on Dietrich Bonhoeffer's theories.

I've long been an admirer of Bonhoeffer: what a valiant soul ... what an exemplary life!

It is very hard to judge the roots of human failure in others -- not to mention in ourselves.

And I'm sure Bonhoeffer was trying to find it in his heart to forgive the horrors perpetrated against Jews and so many people during World War II.

For him, it was clearly hard to believe that human beings could be so evil. He was probably trying to apply Jesus's words (on the cross) to the dire situation then facing him:

"Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."

For it is our own incapacity to forgive that ultimately stabs us in our own hearts.

Nonetheless, we must struggle to recognize how it is that we human beings (all of us) tend to go astray, to close our hearts, and hence to condemn ourselves to endless suffering.

Otherwise we will continue condemning ourselves and one another ad infinitum.

One of your commentators said that "we all have the right to our own opinions". That is so because we were all created with free will.

Without free will, not even Love would be possible. Love, acts of kindness, cannot be forced. A good act loses its virtue if it is forced.

But, most importantly, having the freedom of opinion & speech also means that we are responsible for our opinions, and even our own thoughts.

The problem with our society is that we are always talking about "rights" without their accompanying "responsibilities."

Every single time a right is mentioned, the responsibility that goes hand in hand with it should be cited, and highlighted.

We should ask ourselves: how do my "opinions" affect others, other people's lives, other people's inalienable rights? Are they helpful or hurtful? If so, why?

As human beings, we are urgently called to a constant (or periodic) examination of conscience, for we are all more intimately related to one another than we realize.

The intellect ultimately should be subjected to conscience, to an examination of the heart, and the moral will, that gives rise to ideas ... and allows them free rein.

It is crucial for us to be willing to "question ourselves", to "survey our minds and hearts." As French Gaston Bachelard put it his Psychoanalysis of Fire (p. 100-101):

"To admit that one has erred is to pay the most signal homage to the perspicacity of one's mind. By so doing,we re-live our education, intensify it, illuminate it with converging rays of light. We also externalize, proclaim and teach it." In fact, the capacity to stand beside ourselves, from time to time, to question ourselves -- not only about our objective facts and logic, but also about our subjective attitudes, is key. Bachelard continued: "When our objective knowledge is the objective knowledge of the subjective, when we discover in our own heart the human universal, when, after having honestly psychoanalyzed our study of self, we integrate the rules of morality with the laws of psychology... then the fire which was consuming us suddenly enlightens us."

In this regard, I am truly thankful for your wonderful reflections, with which I deeply agree.

I commend your work, sharing your thoughts so candidly and profoundly. Also your courage in doing so.

And the Socratic method of questioning/probing the minds and conscience of his fellow citizens, which you cite, was most admirable.

It is Socrates's patience and his kind humor in the midst of the terrible ignorance of our unexamined lives, is precisely what we all need.

May we all continue in the search for personal, interpersonal, and collective peace through these important reflections.

Thanks again for your work!

Eileen Rizo-Patron

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John F Lemon's avatar

I thought I was the only one who thought like this now I know I'm one of three who think like this. Alexandra, Bonhoeffer, and me.

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