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Scott Bennett's avatar

This is a meaningful read, thank you for writing it. I hope your week ahead is smoother.

All external events and circumstances are just the raw materials we have to work with. Our job is to do our best with the materials in front of us, no matter what they are. It sounds like you're using it for good, which is all anyone can expect. Like Marcus said: “Death and life, success and failure, pain and pleasure, wealth and poverty, all these happen to good and bad alike, and they are neither noble nor shameful – and hence neither good nor bad.”

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Dear Alexandra. I've been trying to comment on this ... well... exceptional article for three days. It was not only written with such style, it hit home in a very good way. I have an understanding with suffering from several different experiences in my six plus decades of traveling around old Sol. I've had family members (an only sibling plus my mom and dad) go through some pretty tough stuff that very few people (at least the ones I know) would have made it like they did. Personally, I've had the 'gift of Parkinson's' for over twenty years. And I do consider it a gift, because you learn so much!! It also gives you a mission to do whatever it takes. This involves physical therapy five times a week. Neurofeedback with a Psychologist every two weeks. Then there are the daily home efforts. I walk seven days a week - lucky because I live near the shore of Lake Michigan in what we call the Little Finger of Michigan, about sixty miles south of the Upper Peninsula or two miles north of the 45th parallel. The trails of Sleeping Bear Dunes National Park have become holy healing for me. I do all this to be self sufficient so that I can 1) nor be a burden to others and 2) do everything I can to help others. My friend Mary, my sister and I recently finished the transcription of eighteen hours of tape. It was an interview done by Lt. Colonel Carol Erich Ph.D. whose subject was my father. Her dissertation was on why some POWs survived their experiences while others did not. She picked my dad because he was in the Pacific Theater of WWII and was one of the Defenders of Bataan. April 9, 2022 is the 80th anniversary of the surrender of Bataan. He participated in the Bataan Death March, was imprisoned in the infamous Camp O'Donnell where they buried two hundred plus American GIs a day and a thousand Filipino soldiers. His last prison camp was in Japan, Roshu Roki, 25 files miles from Hiroshima. He was there August 6th, 1945 when we dropped the bomb. We published the transcription that went live this week under the title Faithful: Because of Love A True Story of the Survival of the Defenders of Bataan (Amazon type in - Faithful Clement Charles). We wanted the world to hear his voice. 1) Very apropos for what is happening in our world with Ukraine and 2) a beautiful example of surviving a 'suffering' that like all service men who've seen action, never ends. A promo is available on youtube at https://youtu.be/bjp05-DjfBU. Please, keep writing! Your words/your style are just well... at least to me yet another great gift!

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